Trusting yourself if twice as hard as trusting others...

If someone breaks your trust, you know it's their fault and therefore it is not a confusing and overly hurtful situation, however if you trust yourself you are the one to blame when everything goes wrong.

What do you do when you can see the bug zapper and you know it will probably end up the same as it does every other time, but there is a tiny niggle that says maybe, just maybe this one will work out differently.

If this one is nothing but a bug zapper... he is doing a great job of disguising himself as prince charming. (Is charming the key word here?)